A daily question for couples
Each day Dearest gives the two of you a question to answer, so you keep learning something new about each other.
Talk about more than logistics
After a while, most conversations between two people shrink to who is picking up what. "How was your day?" gets "fine", and you both know there was more. It is rarely a lack of love. It is a lack of a good prompt.
A daily question gives you that prompt. You each answer in your own time, then see what the other said, and suddenly there is something funny, sweet or surprising to talk about. It takes a minute, and it works across a table or across time zones.
One question a day
Every day there is a new question for both of you. Answer in your own time, then see what your love said. It is a small habit that gives you something real to talk about over dinner or over a call.
Ways to answer
Questions come in different shapes, so it never feels like homework. Some ask for a few words and some are a quick tap, and you can rate a question or skip topics you would rather leave.
- Open questions in your own words
- This or that
- You or me
- A scale from one to five
- Guess what your love will say
Keep your streak
Answer together to keep your streak alive. A reminder arrives in the evening, and the question can sit on your home screen as a widget, so it is easy to remember. Your answers are saved in Memories, where you can look back on them together.
Talk about it
Some questions are light and some go deeper. Either way, the answers give you a reason to start a real conversation, whether you are in the same room or in different time zones, and to learn something new about someone you already know well.
Your topics, your choice
Topics such as family, money and intimacy are off by default, and intimacy needs an opt-in from adults aged 18 or older. You can skip any topic privately, and tell Dearest when a question was a good one, so the questions suit the two of you.
Free, with a look back
The daily question and its streak are free for both of you, and Today's question has a widget for your home screen. Dearest Pro adds an archive of your past answers, for the evenings you want to read back how you both used to think.
Questions people ask
Is the daily question free?
Yes. The daily question and its streak are free for both of you. Dearest Pro adds an archive of your past answers if you want to look back.
Can we skip topics?
Yes. You can switch topics off privately. Some are off by default, and the most personal ones need an opt-in from adults aged 18 or older.
Do we both have to answer?
Each of you answers on your own phone, then you see each other's answers. Answering every day is what keeps your streak going.
Where do our answers go?
Answers are saved in your Memories, and only the two of you can see them. Pro adds a full archive of your past answers if you want to look back.
What kind of questions will we get?
They come in different shapes: open questions, this or that, you or me, a scale from one to five, and guessing what your love will say. Some also open a thread where you can reply to each other.
Is there a good daily question app for couples?
Dearest gives you and your love one question a day, free, with a streak and a home screen widget. You answer on your own phones, then see each other's answers and talk about them.
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